Conflict - Part 1

We all know the problems that are occurring in the Middle East. This Israel/Palestine debate has been waging for some time now and I would like to come out here with my opinions and facts and thoughts.

First, we must examine the words themselves - Israel and Palestine. Where does each come from? The name 'Israel' first appears in the Bible during the story of Jacob. It talks of how returning from his exile, Jacob meets an angel and wrestles with him. Jacob wins and the angel renames him Israel. Jacobs descendants - the Jewish people - are later referred to as the Children of Israel.

Now, the Jews went from the land of Canaan to Egypt. They were slaves in Egypt for a little over 220 years. When they left, and after they spent 40 years in the desert for not trusting in G-d, they returned to Canaan and took it over. Historically speaking, it seems that the Canaanites are the ones the land belongs to. But none of them are around anymore. Even though since they were described as giants, it is possible that some of you really tall people are distant descendants of the Canaanites. Anyway, the Jews captured Canaan and turned it into the land of Israel. They lived there for a while and they made the land prosper. It was a land flowing with milk and honey.

Let's fast forward to Roman times. Israel was now known as Judea since the large majority of the remaining Jews there were from the tribe of Judah. The other tribes had vanished during one of the previous exiles. The Romans, as was their wont, captured Judea. A little later, as many colonies had done, the Jews chose to revolt. They did their best, but were ultimately unsuccessful. Apparently the Romans had had some practice putting down revolts. After the Roman victory, most of the Jews were dispersed throughout the Roman Empire. The Romans destroyed the 2nd Temple and renamed the area Palestine. At the time, this was basically modern Israel, modern Jordan, and I believe parts of modern Syria as well. This was the first usage of the term 'Palestine'. And its only purpose was to differentiate it from Judea. It had nothing to do with Arabs originally.

It is worth mentioning here that there are very religious neighborhoods in Jerusalem whose ancestors lived there before the Romans came, while the Romans were in power, after the Romans left, and during all the years after that until now as well.

Now fast forward again to the late 1800s. The area is controlled by the Ottoman Empire. Few live there. All the land is owned by rich Ottoman land owners. Theodore Herzl convenes the First Zionist Congress, which begins serious discussions of creating a Jewish state. Over the years, the Congress gathered funds from various Zionist organizations around the world and from philanthropists who were sympathetic to the cause. A large portion of these funds went to legally buying much of the land from the Ottoman land-owners. The land-owners were happy to sell. They made good money on swampy land they considered worthless.

The Zionist Congress then shipped in tons of Jews from all over Europe and Asia. This wave of immigration was known as the First Aliyah and they began the arduous process of converting the swamp land to livable land. These settlers faced climate issues, crippling Turkish taxation, Arab opposition, and disease. But with help of philanthropists like Baron Rothschild.

The Second Aliyah came about 20 years later, as a response to pogroms in Russia and Europe. This aliyah consisted of many more idealists and became the foundation of modern Israel. These settlers brought about the Kibbutz system, which was a foundation of the Israeli system for many years.

Next time we will go into more modern history - the Balfour declaration, the third aliyah, and the multiple wars since the creation of the state of Israel.

Don't ask me why.

The College Years: A Short Rehashing

For those of you who did not know me then, here are a few classics from my time in college. For those of you who did know me, enjoy this little trek down memory lane.

Freshman year. There was this cute girl in my Child Psych class. We started talking because she sat right behind me. And we got along great. After a little while, I asked her out for either lunch or coffee. And she said yes. I was pumped. As soon as I got back to my dorm, I told all my friends about this. I kept going on and on about how great this girl was. And then the class before our date, I find out the catch. Not only is this girl not single; not only did she think we were hanging out as friends; oh no. This girl was engaged. (I never saw the ring. I swear.) And pregnant. Yeah, I hit on and asked out a pregnant engaged chick....without realizing it. We're still facebook friends today.

Halloween freshman year. I decided to go trick-or-treating. It was great. We got tons of candy. And went to the house of one of the deans (by accident). When we showed up, she asked us "Are you guys Case student?" We replied 'yes' very hesitantly and then she laughed (with us, not at us) as she gave us candy. But here is the best part. Not only did one of the friends I was with go as a STD, but I went as Quail Man...from Doug. You can see my awesome costume on the right.

One time, my pants were dirty. So I washed them...and they were still dirty. I washed them again and then they were clean. Whew. Close one.

There was the time I spent money on a Patrick Ramsey jersey (probably the worst waste of money ever in my life...worse than the pimp suit this year). But not only did I buy this jersey; I actually wore it out in public. I know I wore it to a party once. My friends brother used to think of me as "the guy in the Ramsey jersey". That is never a good thing. Oh, and Ramsey played on Monday Night Football this past year for the Denver Broncos when Jay Cutler got injured. He lasted abut 1.5 quarters before Mike Shanahan realized that Cutler at like 50% was still much better than Ramsey at 100%.

Sophomore year. It was approximately 2 days before the start of classes, but my friends and I were all at school already. And this one night we were bored and decided to walk over to the frisbee house. We walked the 15 minutes or so and hung out for a while. But at the end of the evening, someone challenged my drinking abilities. I had to prove them wrong immediately. I took the bottle of vodka that was on the table and poured myself a tall glass of it. I then proceeded to chug the glass of vodka. But don't worry. I was OK. However, on the walk home, I really had to pee. I decided to run home. It was about a 10/15 minute run...plus the Elephant Stairs. The name should give you an idea of the enormity of the staircase. But once I got back to my dorm room and peed, I was OK. I decided to go to bed. A few of my friends were still in the common room at this point. I change and lay down in bed. About 5 minutes later, I feel it. All that vodka had decided to re-enter the world the same way it left it - through my mouth. I had no time to make it to a trashcan. I puked some on my closet door and some on my floor. The rest went into my hand. I then proceeded to walk to the one bathroom we had in our suite holding my vomit-filled hand up to my mouth and splattering a little. One of my friends promptly left. The others simply stared.

More to come soon (I hope): the "Loree" story, the naked story, the golf cart story, the fohawk story, and a real entry or 2.

Don't ask me why.

The Food Stories

So any of you who know me, know that I like to eat...a lot. And no vegetables. Meat. Potatoes. Other carbs. Sweets. Those are my main food groups.

Well, during my college years, certain events occurred that still bring tears of laughter to the eyes of those who were there for these events. And here they are for the rest of you.

Napoleon Dynamite. You all remember this movie. Well, my friends and I went to see it. And I wanted some soda, which I bought. And some nerds. You guys all know those big boxes of rainbow nerds? Like the one pictured here? Well, I also bought one of those. So there we are sitting in this movie. Cracking up. When I take a giant handful of nerds and stuff them all in my mouth. I happily crunch away on them as my friends, not to mention some other people, give me dirty looks. Then I have another one. And another. Well, on the 4th giant handful, I choke on the nerds. I begin madly sipping my soda trying to clear my throat. And my friends are cracking up more at me than at the movie. KARMA!

United Dairy Farmers. Some of you may not know them. But they have great ice cream. And my friends and I went there one night for this ice cream. Well, we are in line ordering our ice cream. And I choose my ice cream flavor. Then I am looking at the menu and trying to decide if I want my sundae in a regular sugar cone or a waffle cone. My ice cream cost $3.99. The waffle cone was an extra $.40. Being a good Jew, I choose the sugar cone. After all, who charges $.40 for a freakin' waffle cone????

Sophomore year. Dorm spaghetti eating contest...in teams. Each of 3 dorms had a team of 5 people. Well, I was my team's anchor. And when it got to me, we were about half a plate behind the leader. I was not going to let this stand. I simply inhaled my plate of spaghetti. I am pretty sure that it honestly took less than a minute. I might have cried a little after, but the victory was worth it.

Sophomore year. Cookout on top of the hill. 7 hot dogs. 4 patties. And some chips. What more needs to be said here?

Once again, sophomore year. Dining hall. I had decided to eat a little healthier. Don't worry. It did not last long. Anyway, I wanted a salad...and had no idea how to make one. I had to have a friend show me how to make a salad. And by the way, it was not worth it. It had VEGETABLES!!!!!

And finally, freshman year. The common area on our floor in our dorm. A few of us sitting around. Some people doing homework. I had brought a sandwich. With bologna. As I was eating my sandwich, the best piece of bologna slipped out and fell on the floor. The very dirty floor. The very dirty floor we all stepped on. A lot. Have I mentioned dirty? Well, what happens? I pick up this piece of bologna. Stare at my friend for a second. I look right at him. He looks like he may either puke into a corner or jump up and do a celebratory jig, depending on my action. I eat the bologna. He pukes a little in his mouth. But the bologna was still delicious...and worth it.

Hope you enjoyed these stories...at least a little. A little bit of a preview for it: a few real entries this week, the naked story, the "Laurie" story (people at Case still know this story...people who never even met me), Halloween freshman year story, the pregnant chick story, and of course, the golf cart story.

Don't ask me why.

Congratulations!

This weekend my family and I celebrated my grandparents 50th wedding anniversary. This was a great occasion. There were 40 people at dinner and easily could have been 400 had we chosen to send out more invites and to go the giant restaurant route. My grandparents have known so many people throughout their life and have really touched a large number of them.

My mom told a story of how when she, her sisters, and their parents visited Baku (where we are from) in September, everyone needed to see my grandparents. And to take them into their home. And to feed them. I mean, these are people they have not seen in more than 20 years. People they knew in a completely different life. And yet my grandparents were remembered. They were still loved...all these years later.

My grandmother was a teacher and her students from 20, 30, 40 years ago still remember her and love her. For her 70th birthday a year ago, a man and his wife flew down from Canada. She had taught him in the Soviet Union in the 10th grade and he saw a post on an Internet chat room for people from Baku about her birthday. A woman emailed my aunt a story about when she was in 8th grade and had my grandmother for a teacher. This girl's father was being sent to a different part of the Soviet Union for work for a bit. And his wife was going for him. The girl could not come, but refused to stay with other family...unless my grandparents took her with them on their family vacation that summer. Well, they took her.

Those are just a few examples of the kind of people my grandparents are. And to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary...especially when 50% of marriages end in divorce now....well, it was an amazing feeling. Even better was the hupa. The hupa, for those of you don't know, is the traditional canopy which Jews get married under. Well, when my grandparents got married 50 years ago, the hupa was obviously not an observable tradition (it being the Soviet Union and all). So my Rabbi came out and performed a traditional wedding for them. They were "remarried" under a hupa. They signed the ktuba (the wedding contract), which by the way, is ridiculously slighted toward the female. I mean us guys have to pay for EVERYTHING in case of divorce, according to the ktuba. To me, it was a beautiful occasion. Just seeing them together like that and seeing all the family there made me so happy. And I wanted to share that with you all.

Don't ask me why.

Economic Woes

I feel as if one of the overlooked economic concerns these days is how businesses are getting away from consumer concerns.

Comcast never seems to care about customer service. Cosi (the one by Metro Center) writes on their menu that a customer can get a side soup or salad with any sandwich for $2.19. But they no longer provide that service. There is some new deal they do instead. But their menu still advertises this special! Almost every dollar menu is climbing and now costs anywhere between $1 and $1.39. In fact, McDonald's now advertises "Lots of choices for a dollar or a little more". How are these things not false advertising? These corporations are promising consumers one thing and providing another. Not only that, but McDonald's has thought of yet another way to steal money. Instead of having a double cheeseburger for a dollar, they now have a McDouble for a dollar and a double cheeseburger for $1.19. The difference? One slice of cheese. Can you really tell me that an extra slice of crappy American cheese is 20 cents? Or that there is 20 cents of extra effort involved in placing it on the burger?

All this goes to show that businesses have stopped caring. The basic principle of capitalism is that market forces will force any business to stabilize prices and to provide decent service or consumers will not go there and the business will eventually close. However, I do not see any such thing happening. Granted, market forces work on a macro level and it is hard to see them from my vantage point. But still. Companies need to be much more in tune with what consumers want. I know it seems like a small point, but I really think it will be important in the long term. All the little things are. The government can fix the big things. But the little things are up to us...and the companies. Unless we fix those, our economy will ultimately be doomed to failure.

Don't ask me why.

Questing for Perfection

When we are asked what we want in a potential, or not so potential, partner/significant other/life-mate/choose your own word and put it here, we can all easily recite a long laundry list of desires. They should be funny, smart, educated, employed, independent, ambitious, tall, good-looking, etc.... Of course there is a little variation. For example, some of us want someone short and some of us don't. But overall, we all have the same basic list.

Well, here's the problem with that. Who actually fits that list? I mean, that list of qualities describes someone who is basically perfect. And no one is perfect. We all have our flaws and our faults. We all have something wrong with us. We are all too short or too tall; too fat or too skinny; too light or too dark. None of us exactly match someone else's list of wants. And no one exactly matches our list.

No one is perfect and no one ever will be. This quest it seems that so many are on to find that "one, perfect person" is really a quest for the impossible. Our flaws and our faults are what make us unique...and in the end, what define our humanity. If someone rejects you citing all the ways you don't match their list, is that really a bad thing? I say no! We are not cookie-cutter people. We are individuals with our very own unique personalities, looks, thoughts, ideas, flaws, faults, quirks.....in other words, souls.

And if someone cannot accept the things they like in us with the things they dislike, then why must we accept them into our lives? I mean, there are things we dislike about them as well. And we are as valuable as they are. As my friend Chana Rothman (http://www.myspace.com/chanarothman) sings "You're no better than me. I'm no better than you." [More Than One Way].

So lets just accept all of us for who we are and abandon this ridiculous quest for perfection. Because after all, which of us really fits that mold?

Don't ask my why.